Sounds like reality is jumping up and biting her in the butt. Of course she's going to grab on to anything she can that you're doing/not doing to justify.
Not sure if you're still interested in making it work or not, but I'll share a quick story.
One of my peers in our company told me a story a week ago. His W had an A and left him and their daughters. Two weeks before the D was final, she came to him and wanted to reconcile. He refused. They divorced, she married OM, within a couple years OM was cheating on his ex and she's miserable. He married another lady and is completely happy. But here's the kicker. He said, "I should have given our marriage another chance. I still love her and it was just my ego that said no. Splitting kids on holiday's and such is hard. And every marriage has problems." He told me this to tell me he thought it was good that I was trying my hardest to make my marriage work.
Food for thought.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
