It's a good thing I don't have a window in my classroom. I would be tossing this computer out the window. Since I'm on the 2nd floor I don't think it would survive the crash!
H called me Friday night and said he wouldn't be able to attend DD's game because he had to go to an out of town job site to meet with the engineer and job superintendent that were being difficult. He said he would call when he got back. He did not.
Saturday morning I called him and told him that he would not start treating me like he has in the past. I told him when he did not call me back Friday night and let me know what I was going on I did not trust him. I said you have deceived me so many times I will not stand for it. You have to give me reason to trust you. He got defensive. I told him I did not call to argue with him. I said if you want to make this work you have to be accountable. He then started explaining to me what he did and what his plans were for the day.
He called me that evening and invited me to dinner. It was very nice. Afterwards he came in the house and stayed about an hour and talked to DD and her friends.
I did not hear from him Sunday. He has a long way to go if he wants to make it work. I'm dropping the rope. We will see if he hangs himself with it... Like I said I told him I will not tolerate not knowing what he is up to. He must start acting like a married man or he will soon find himself a divorced man.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon