Thanks Mel. I know others are probably tired of hearing this, but my W has NEVER even said "I'm sorry".

The closest I got from her was "Am I ashamed of what I've done? I guess somewhat, but I'm more ashamed that you told OMW and our kids". Total justification and rationalization of her actions. Yes, she did something bad, but what I did was worse. Uh, excuse me, but if you hadn't had the A there wouldn't have been anything to tell OMW and our kids.

If that's the best she can do with an apology, then I think I'll be moving on.

I've been mulling an idea over in my head. I know some of you will probably scream, but next Monday is our anniversary. I'm thinking of planning a trip to Fla for us in early May as a gift. Kind of like a last grasp. Continue doing what I'm doing for 2 more months, take the trip and if things are still the same.....

I know, I know, I've been doing this type thing for almost a year now and it's got me no where, but I just feel like if I didn't give us one final shot before folding, then I'd regret it.

Comments?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.