Thank you S4H....that does make sense. But I know the moment I start laying out ground rules...he will run. He is scared to come back....what he wants is a guarentee that things will work....and that isnt possible and he knows that.
He is afraid of losing something that may be a good thing, because of fear.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10