VDad, I think you are doing great. I am like you in that sometimes I worry about detaching/withdrawing too much (part of the old me) and it coming across like I don't care. I think she still thinks you are going to be there to save her from financial ruin. You are going to have to be very strong for that.
Talk to you later. You really are doing good.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
