I know this will be really hard for you Jeff, but honesty and openness is the way to go. Your kids are old enough for the truth. At least there is no OP involved that would hurt the kids more because a new person would inevitably be thrown into their lives right at the same moment that the rest of their lives are in upheaval. Something to be thankful for.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!