I can only picture the scenario in which you posted that vent/rant of yours earlier.
I can only hope that came from sitting in your Strawberry Shortcake PJ's, having a little too much drink ( shine?) , and just shutting off Steel Magnolias on your antique beta vision......
Because I know that is NOT how you really feel about Jimbo......
Perspective ? Yes you have had to deal with this twice. But to make the difference, and not wallow in the " self-pity hot tub" ( yard is too small for a pool ), you must, and do, realize that how YOU handle this makes the difference. And it shouldn't make any difference to anyone but Jimbo, and your blue hat .
