I do think that the money from us is about to dry up. I do... I think of her as being mine too, she lived with us all but a year and 1/2 of the 15 years we have been together. My Mom has always said I have been her rock, her mother has never been much or any help for her, and I am the one who has been with her. So it isn't just like I can say I am not going to be here for you just because your Dad is an idiot. I will always be there for her and I have told her that. She has even asked if H and I do D if my mom and dad will still be her grandparents?
Yes, I know H still counts on me to be responsible, that is my nature. I can't play a game with him on that instance where she is involved. I feel like I would be punishing her for what her dad is doing. I know she needs to step up and take responsibility for her actions, and that is something that her mom has always done, blame everyone else for her problems. She made her problem bigger by not getting her degree when she said she was. I am ready to tell her no more money, you have got to find something somewhere, but I am not ready to tell her I am not going to be here for her.
