(((((Kalni)))))(((((naej)))))(((((Ali))))) I really do think the kids will be ok, and probably not even that surprised. I am sure the youngest isn't going to like it, though. And that makes me sad.
I've gotten some advice on how to handle it. I have a feeling all of that is going to go out the window when the time comes... well, not out the window, but it will become a lot more like guidlines than anything. And I think that is really how it should be. I think how things go should depend on how the kids react, not on how we think they should.
