How long did you work on your R before you felt comfortable enough to start fixing your lack of physical intamacy?
Burt
Burt,
It took two full months of DBing for my W to believe I really was changing. I am lucky in that she is an extremely sensitive and caring person who was under a lot of stress when she wanted to leave. By alleviating her stress, and making changes to things she told me I could never change, it really made an impact on her. Still, two months felt like an eternity, as anyone who has been hit by a bomb knows.
Let me track down my threads and you can read through them if you are interested.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
