Well hang in there, at least she giggled! Prior to DBing, my W would roll her eyes and act annoyed if I asked.
I don't believe it is because they don't care as much as don't realize how important it is to us, and the effect on the R when it is lacking.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A