Never feel guilty about screening your calls, even to your parents. That's what caller id is for! But make sure you call them back at some time, because you know that they are going to worry about you. If you don't return the call when you feel up to it, you know they are just going to use that key and surprise you!
Just like Kel, the thoughts I have for your H are pretty harsh too.
Sweetie, I think you are going to have to reach deep and grow a set of balls to deal with this man.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
