Maybe you should try the book "Why Men Marry Bitches" Yoyo....though like Theo say's, I don't think you really ought to change. Most guys would love to have a W like you. It's just that if you want the H you have then perhaps you will need to be much stronger with him. He is a manipulater and suffers no consequences currently.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength