I will be sharing a bit about it perhaps, if memorable.
Please do I know it's tough and who knows why they say the tings they say. It's like they all of a sudden care more about your feelings now than they have for the last couple of years LOL
Waving at daughter as she leaves goes a long way. They really love that.
My daughter called me last night and said they were driving through the neighborhood and asked if they could stop by. I said of course. No expectations from the wife (see I am learning). Then as they are coming in the door the wife says, "this wasn't a planned thing". LOL they always have to be doing something in their head. But it was enjoyable. We laughed and goofed off for thirty minutes. Then I sat here all night wondering - you know how that is... and this morning wife calls asking about an appointment for daughter on calender and tells me she has a conflicting appt with lawyer.... LOL They are always shooting something across the bow. I think in her mind it is her way saying, "don't have false hopes".
I worry to my self though as I stop blaming myself and realize I may be better off without her... what would I do if she wanted to reconcile because of my daughter? It is the indecision that is killing me. Because quite honestly the minute I mae the true decision to move on I will be gone.
Do you struggle with this?
PS.. Like I said Idon't really have any DB advice. I actually think I have done all the wrong things. If you ever feel that I am cutting into the advice you can get from let me know K!
I know it's tough and who knows why they say the tings they say. It's like they all of a sudden care more about your feelings now than they have for the last couple of years LOL
