Just keep swimming...PH #4

[pearlharbr]

I am totally on Team Aniston, have been since day one! LOL Tawnya, I didn't even think about the dressed in black/white thing, but you're right! I was cheering for Jen having to be up there with that b!tch and her ex in the front row. She did great. (BTW, I have boycotted both of their films since Mr. & Mrs. Smith, it's not a recent thing for me.)

I cannot take full credit for that response, I quoted Gucci quite liberally. So yes Tawyna, feel free to borrow!

Now if I could only send it to xBF...

[Tawnya]

{{{Pearl}}} no wonder we are solidarity sisters..LOL!! I feel the same way about her!! Woot I never have seen Mr & Mrs Smith either or any of their others, but LOVED Marley and Me and He's Not that Into You..I'm glad she got up there, looking gorgeous!!

Tawnya

[pearlharbr]

You know what, I think I am going to send that email to xBF. I don't have anything to lose. JD, I really do think I'm done with him. I can't imagine anything he could say or do that would make me want him back. I told him cheating was a dealbreaker for me. Try as I might, I don't think I could ever trust him again. When the going got tough he walked away from me and to someone else. What's to stop him from doing that again?

I love my house. I love my lifestyle. But that's not enough to go back to that R. I am excited about my future and nothing is going to stop me from having that new life I want.

Going for my walk so I'll have an hour to mull it over before doing anything.

[Tawnya]

{{{Pearl}}} I think I have gotten to the point that I actually feel like you do..I haven't really voiced it on my thread yet, but this past week, I guess with hub moving out and it really just being REAL to me, I have found out I don't want to go back to that, even before when it was "good", it wasn't great, it was okay..but I, like you, want to have that new life that I WANT and that we all deserve

Tawnya

[pearlharbr]

So is Brad a WAH, and Angelina a OW skank?

Yep, that's about right JD.

Plus, as in my sitch, it's not the first time she's gone after someone else's man. She did the same thing to Laura Dern with Billy Bob Thornton. In my mind that means she does it deliberately and therefore a bad person.

[pearlharbr]

Ok, just sent the email! I'm a little anxious but mostly glad to get it off my chest!

I'm not expecting a response but it will be interesting to see when he contacts me about picking up the furniture. I have dance tomorrow night and going to a concert Wed. Thurs I leave for a long weekend in Minneapolis. I may have to ask the house sitter if she's ok with him coming over on the weekend. I don't want to drag this out, I just want him out of the house and out of my life!

[pearlharbr]

Well, that didn't take long!

Sent the email at 3:03, got a text at 3:21

Can i pick up stuff Thursday night?

Going to wait until tomorrow to respond. Have to ask the house sitter if it's ok since she will be at the house.

[pearlharbr]

Just remembered something I was going to post this morning...

I know that forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. I'm working on it. Honest. I'm just not there yet. I think I'm at understanding why but just can't take that next step yet.

I was listening to James Hunter this morning on my walk. (If you like soul/old school R&B then check him out!) I laughed out loud at the following song, especially the last verse:

You didn't know my heart would mend
And you'd take my place on the receiving end
Now I won't even stop you leaving I'll be helping you to pack
So baby don't come back
Don't come back

Now I didn't mind being left alone
But I got tired of you bringing your business home
Now I'm making alterations to the welcome on the mat
To baby don't come back
Don't come back

Would never have revenge in mind
Cause an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind
But forgiveness is the business of some other diplomat
So baby don't come back
Don't come back

I guess that's just how I'm feeling today!

[JDOllie]

Ah, Pearl, I'm so jealous, wish that was me!

I feel very nostalgic today - I think it's a blue Monday with family leaving, and kids being gone.

I'm going to save this song for later though!

[spellfire]

I don't have much in the way of advice pearl, but I'm cheering for ya!

SF