Thank you so so so much for giving me your POV. That was fantastic! You really explained what my H might be thinking by presenting a father's POV. I am so thankful. I think you nailed it on the head, he is acting out of fear!! It makes perfect sense! I know he loves his kids but I didn't know why he looked resentful and uncomfortable, silly me thought that it had to do with ME. But no, it was his insecurity! Wow, thanks so much for your insight.
Also, what you said about him not being able to enjoy the kids with OW was exactly what my IC said but what you said made it more clear in my head. thank you! I will continue to encourage him in his parenting and will do so without resentment or wonder. I will do it because it makes more sense now and can approach it from a better POV. I really really hope that he will be bitten by the parenting bug. I hope that nothing will measure in comparison, if he has that I will be a very happy Mom. Thank you very much for those words, Kev :-)
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
