Cindy, listen, if we lived life perfect, what would there ever be to work on? I know how easy it is to do something like that, been there done that. What concerns me for you is your H's flippant reaction to your date and all that went with it. Should you have told him? Maybe its a good thing you did, kinda shows you how much concern he has for you..... I'm certainly not suggesting that you go out and have 1 night stands all the time, but I think you need to really look hard at seeing other people. Make it good men this time, I know, there are so few of us out there! LOL