Thanks for the tips. It has been two days and as for the separation, is it not a long one but it has helped. By long I mean I only moved into the other bedroom. We are still in the same house.
The stress is down for her and that is great. Her communication is like it was now when things were great. She even called on the way home yesterday to check in. One thing she had not done in months.
My job is to not expect too much. It seems so normal I feel that we are back together but I feel, yes she needs to miss me and come for me.
Funny Kassie, I had an aunt pass and we are both going to the service out of state this week. So out 1st awkward trip.
Sat. night she was out with friends and I have no idea what time she came home. She told me some info yesterday but I bit my tongue and did not ask questions.
Yes working on a GAL and my 180 will be more things with my kids. She never saw me with them as I was home watching them vs being with them. Now she will have to adjust her work life and I will be the one to come get the kids and do fun stuff. She will be the day to day watcher.
Thanks and keep the tips coming. I thanks each and everyone of you for the support.
Twice
Me:45;W-47 Married 17 years this time Married in '82 for 3 years and divorced, both walked away. Re-married '91 D16 at home S15 at home (Special Needs) *************************** Wife EA June 08 Bomb August 08 Living in same house
