Hi (((Cookie))),

Going OK here, I was going to ask you the same. Limboland can be pretty boring at times. No D talk this weekend as we were busy with kid's games and throwing S12 a birthday party yesterday.

I had a nice Saturday night. We had a school function at a indoor swim center and W mentioned once or twice that we both didn't have to go. Seeing that she didn't want to go there together, I asked her if she was sure, she said yeah, you can do whatever you want. So, once they left, I raced to a movie that I had wanted to see.

It was a little sad as my W and I used to go to movies a lot - also at this particular theatre. And then there was the thought of being alone (not lonliness) that I thought would be something I'd have to deal with more once the D was final.

Anyway, the movie (slumdog millionaire) was great. It got my mind off things at most times completely. I got home in time to kiss the kids goodnight but didn't mention to my W where I went that night - nor did she ask. The next morning, I told a couple of the kids about the movie and we watched the trailer on line.

Wife must've heard and asked me about the movie. Then she commented later that it must've been nice to go to a movie by myself (me thinking she'd have her chance soon enough with split custody). I just kind of shrugged. Then she said, unless you weren't by yourself. I said, no, I was by myself.

Heard you've been GALing lately. Good for you. Hope things are stable in your sitch.

NM


M: 48
H: 42
M: 14 yrs
3 kids
Bomb: 05/21/08
Status: Limbo

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