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[Tawnya]

{{{Kassie}}} I had to hunt you down to find you..sheesh..LOL..ok..I'm fired up about your hub's convo *as you will see by all the capital letters LOL*..so fired up southern gal on the loose

OKAY..wow..all I can say is WOW about the crap your hub has been throwing at you! He's really digging for ways to make you feel badly..my hub said that about my kids..not the still being here but that I was doing my son a disservice by homeschooling him..they KNOW where to hit you where it digs..

Kassie..I agree with Silva (geez I always seem to say that LOL), that if it took a crappy convo for you to think about WHAT you need and what is best for you and to make you realize that UM NO..YOU don't deserve to be treated that way, to be dictated to about your kids (by the way, NOTHING wrong with that I think..what the heck?? If they were 40 and still living there, then maybe I'd talk to you LOL)..then I'm glad you had the crappy convo!

IF there would be one thing I could do to open your brain and drop this in there to make it STICK (sorry if you don't watch Heroes it sounds a bit more ridiculous LOL)..would be to forgive yourself and move forward for YOU...stop wondering and worrying about if every time you move wrong it is pushing your hub away..and stick up for YOU!

PLEASE stop thinking that you are messing up..Kass..YOU are not messing up!! Your HUB messed up, sure you were not 100% innocent, but HIS issues are HIS issues and it is so much easier for him to try to blame you than deal with his own problems. Looking at your convo with your hub, it sounds a lot like Pearl's note from her xbf and Silver's note from her hub..a lot of I's and me's and the only you's were about blame..(ok..I need to breathe myself here for a minute LOL)

OK.so..what are you doing right? WELL..you are sticking up for yourself first of all. Second of all, he is still talking, even in a junky form, of wanting to work things out. Third, you are taking things in and learning from them. Fourth, you are reaching out for help/advice/taking it all in. Fifth..should I go on..

I Hope you can let this yucky crappy day go..shake it off, and move forward..that's all any of us can do!! You can what if yourself to bits..but, at the end of the day, if you really sit down and look at it..look at how far we've come since this started for each of us..I always say, I hated the road I took, but I'm thankful for the destination I'm reaching!

:::okay..fired up southern gal is done now:::

{{{{{{{Kassie}}}}}}}}}}}}

Tawnya