An alcoholic has a disease. When they are using they ARE A**holes. AND there are times to back out and back off for healing...what would a good strong counselor say...YES one who believes in marriage counseling.
Have you went back Ali and read what T has said and communicated to her x throughout this? Again - this is teh ONE PLACE where it is suppose to be safe.
yes you pave a way for TRUTH HONESTY and YES COMPASSION.... but he isn't even on the yellowbrick road yet....
sorry but i get defensive for people whom i have watched go through this with dignity and honor. TRUSTING is one of those people. GO BACK and READ here TIME through the divorce.... gO READ IT WITH OPEN EYES AND COMPASSION for her......
she hasn't "DONE" anything to him...she is being unavailable. I BELIEVE the term in DBing is called GOING DARK......
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
