I realized something was wrong about a month before the bomb. But found out later (in depo) that was when the PA began. And looking back I think the EA had been active for at least a year before that if not longer. They'd been co-workers (no longer are) for a few years. I think to change things I would have had to do all this prob. months or even a year earlier than I did most likely. But I've done my best as I could and have always tried to work on the M rather than walk away. So there is something in that I think. Karen
