I just wanted to make a comment from reading your previous thread. It seems like your husband is acting like a man who has already met someone else.
Just my sense of it.
I agree too, that usually when a WAS has zero interest in the M or working on it, there is someone else in the wings. Or it seems like that anyway!
You also may want to read around and find some other threads and people that you like. I'm always amazed at how so much of us have stuff in common, our Ms & sitches are very similar. Post on a couple of other's threads and many will post on yours too. Glad to meetcha! Karen