Need a kick in the butt....

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First thing I think would be good GALing, is to take good care of yourself. Eat right, sleep enough, etc.

Then doing something with your appearance is a great next step. Go to a hair stylist, clothing, etc.

Perhaps a next step is getting involved in some kind of group that interests you or working for a cause.

Or taking a class for fun or to further your education.

Just some ideas......