What's wrong? I hope you don't mind my posting. Puppy's left the building, so I'm trying to come over here too from my usual spot in the Infidelity section. I've been reading your thread.
I'm also going to be moving this next month and have limited $$$, so can relate to that. I do stuff that's cheap or free: volunteer work, church activities, the kids and I take Tae Kwondo through the city park & rec and that's $10 a month only! We try out for the local community theatre group (had never done a play before!) and get involved in those, plus backstage stuff painting sets, also free of course. I've met a lot of wonderful people through these, really great support system.
I know I need to cut down on my GALing or try to this next month, but that and exercise are so important to me, I'm going to try to make some time for it every week. You may want to also even if it's just one day a week or something...
I think there's no way that you can figure out what is going on in your W's mind. And maybe that's for the best sometimes! I can't believe they never have any thoughts re: recon. My H used to pick fights all the time, I think it helped him detach more and feel less guilt. I think you need to focus on just yourself, doing those changes for you, and not worry about your W or her reactions to them. Karen
