Cinders - get over it.

You are a modern woman and you slept with a man. It's no big deal. As you now know, you are the only one who can control you and you can control how you feel about this. Put it down to a life experience and I promise you in a few months from now you will be laughing with your girlfriends about the-worst-sex-of-your-life...

Cinders - I've been there - I think dating after separation and divorce is like learning to walk ... you take a few steps, you fall over. Sometimes you fall on your bottom and it doesn't hurt, sometimes you fall on your head and get a bump and a bruise - but they heal and you get up and take another few steps.

Now - go out today and buy a box of condoms for your bedside table. OK?

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Last edited by Walkingback; 02/23/09 12:46 AM.

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