We're just bluff calling right now.
He said I'll leave, I said go, H said what will you do if I don't?
So he isn't going anywhere. Again.

I can rag on him and force him out that way. That's not who I am, but probably all it would take is to keep asking him to talk with me about our issues. He considers that a fight.
I can blow it open and talk to anyone who wants to know what's been going on with us, including my family.
I can take legal action.

How else do I put clout into my words and enforce change?


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.