PM, you are a wise woman. Your H must be an IdIOT to leave you. In reading your sitch about your parents being married 40 years, I came from the same type of family.

I loved what you wrote, the only problem is that H and OW are being investigated at work right now. It seems to be the worst kept secret there. I had someone tell me there are rumors going around that H and OW were caught with their pants down. WTH.

Not sure if it was a work or at office but people know. If OW left the job even a few months ago there would be no case, but as most OW she is a greedy gold digger, wants her paycheck and his too. I like the advice you gave. Maybe I can word it another way.

Something to think about. Keep praying for each other.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09