Sounds like the day for "WAS" to act up - could it be in the stars or something? LOL

You sound angry and hurt. Read my thread and you will hear more from me about mine. But since this is yours I will continue on your case. I think you handled it well. I was told when my kids were young by the therapist to let them have their own R with the other parent and not to get in the middle. He told me that when we get in the middle then they turn their anger on us.

I guess you were surprised by your own feelings, just letting you know that R don't really ever end, they get distant but not done - that is why Michele has this book and site. It isn't easy. If I had a do-over I wouldn't have D the first time, and it is why this time is so hard on me.

Continue venting if needed, I 'll be around looking for a partner to dance with later. Have to keep spirits up now!


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11