Hi SC, I'm sorry you are here but you are in the right place for some wonderful advice and some help and support for the hard time that you and your family are going through. If you are still on speaking terms with your H I second the recommendation to bring up the issue of MC. If he is still amenable to that, it should be very helpful to your sitch.

Don't lose hope! Two months is an awfully short amount of time to be separated, and it seems like your desire and efforts at reconciliation are fairly recent. Many folks here are separated for many months before their DB efforts start paying off. Everyone and every sitch is different, but DB'ing isn't a "quick-fix" for marital problems.

It sounds like you are doing the right things so far: wanting to preserve the relationship, get DB and read it and start following it, work on yourself, etc.

You are definitely at the start of the journey. Keep posting and stay positive!


Me40
WAW37
M18 T20
S18,14 D13
EA Bomb 6/08
Sep 11/20/08
Ret 08/09
Sep/Filed 11/09

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