Sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time.
My advice would be for you to follow the advice of the book and work on solutions to the problems that you two are having. Also going to see a good therapist would help as well.
Am I correct in inferring that you want it to work out, but you need to see changes on his part before you're truly ready to recommit?
Together since Feb. 2003 Maried since July 2007 Bomb occured early Dec. 2008 She's approved for a lease mid Feb. 2009 (deciding on if to take it or not)
