Thanks everyone for your advice.

25, here is a personal email I set up just for this occasion if you do want to go through it line by line and email it to me.



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I think yall have talked me into having an attorney look at it. I may just have to stay in a hotel for a week.

The original lease does not have my name on it. Its an old one that my W had to sign to show residency to get our kids in school when she moved up here ahead of me. However, the old lease is no longer valid acoording to new city regulations. So I'm not sure it would hold up.

My W's parents are against me. They are all about making their daughter happy. This isn't about whats right or wrong to them. Its about their families happiness comes first. And if she has a chance to hook up with a guy that makes more money, they are all about the money as that is what her mom and sister both did. So now W is doing the same thing.

She is going to get mad at me and say I have changed my mind once again and that I never keep promises. But I do have to protect myself. I didn't realize I had so many rights in my situation. I thought I was probably screwed if I didn't go along with what she wanted. I don't have to have the money from her. Its just helpful. But not required. Money gets spent so much that there is really nothing in savings. We did get our tax return and I got a few extra checks. But I have to take into account my portion that goes to the kids also.

I see what you are saying about sobriety. I'd be interested in your line by line analysis if you have the time and are interested. Again, just send it to that email address I listed.

Kevin

Kevin

Last edited by Virginia; 03/10/09 01:18 AM.