Don't worry about making things "damn easy" for H, concentrate on making things easy on YOURSELF and your KIDS. All this other stuff is just clutter and cling. I know it is tough to let go, and tough to try and not care about all of the things going on with him and his new R, but for your own sake, the sake of the kids, and the sake of your business, let go.
Once you can start doing that, I promise you that you will feel oh so much better.
