Whats the current state with you and him then? Are you S and not in physical contact, but you see him with your D, or are yuo kind of seeing each other, but he wont commit to being back in an R with you or letting his friends and FBers know that?
He isnt being fair no, and you have been exrtrodinarily patient.. but I agree with T.. when I read it, I wasnt picking up that he was 'done' and your S is permanent, seems he was asking for more time. Must be so maddening for you.
Have you got, or had, a DB coach? I just wondered what you could do differnetly maybe. Mine (Jody) was amazing, despite the money it costs, I'd reccomend it. Glad you posted and your house is sold!
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
