If you were around last year you remember I went to Las Vegas for my B-day. It may sound "fun" but it was not. I spent a week by myself. I mean I did enjoy visiting the ghost towns. But no matter what people say. I am can not find happiness alone. I do need someone to share my life with. Anyway I sent Wife an e-mail yesterday....
Wife,
Thank you so much for the wonderful time I had last night. I was 100% better that my b-day last year. I am trying to become a better husband and father and I would like it if you could take a minute and answer a question for me. I am going to be asking (our son) the same question. I know you can probably come up with more but ….
What are three things that cause you to be uncomfortable or irritated with me? Please be honest.
Love Doc
I have not received a reply yet.
MIL took us to Dinner last night. Son, SIL, and Wife’s cousin and her husband came along. Dinner was really nice. After we went to MIL house and watched a Movie. When we got home I did not pursue a kiss. I figured that Wife may have been thinking that I was expecting one. I am not doing anything thinking that I will get something in return. I thanked her for that nice time and she said "don't thank me thank my mom" I told her that If it were not for her I would not have met her mom.. so I just acted "as if" and after a while went to bed.
This morning I sent W another E-mail..
You are not getting off easy on this one... What are three things that cause you to be uncomfortable or irritated with me? Please be honest.
There will be no need to justify your answers. They are your prospective.
I am assuming you needed a little time to think about these
WARNING...... You will be getting this e-mail again/
Love Doc.
Monday I am starting day 6 even if I do not get a reply...
Day 6: Love is not irritable
He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city.
—Proverbs 16:32
TODAY’S DARE
Choose today to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways instead of with irritation. Begin by making a list below of areas where you need to add margin to your schedule. Then list any wrong motivations that you need to release from your life.
I am not sure what it means :
making a list below of areas where you need to add margin to your schedule."
can anyone help me out on this? I am just a country boy
I will keep sending Wife the Day 5 questions until I get a response.
Boy it must suck to have somebody Love you....
It's raining today so I will spend the day watching the DVD's wife and son got me for my B-Day..
Take care Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
