Hi W2G. Nice to read that the real estate portion of your sitch seems to be moving in the right direction. As you know, I have been where you are today...most of us have. The only thing I can say is yes it hurts but it hurts less and less as you continue to detach. I am not all the way there yet and at times I wonder what it will take to get there. Feelings linger but eventually, like some folks on this board, we will find someone new and the old will become less appealing.
On the FB thing and secrecy or trust in general. I understand where you are coming from. The fact that he refuses to share that part of his "life" is cause for some concern.
I am not really sure what your goal or expectations are going forward....but it all boils down the the same questions (for me anyway):
Are you in or out and is FB a deal breaker.
Hope you feel better today my fellow Canadian....spring is around the corner!!!!