Kevin,

You have my thoughts. Like mentioned above the property settlement is final and can't be changed. The custody and child support can be changed anytime. Get a lawyer to look it over please.

I feel your pain.. Try a wife who made $93k and a husband that made $80 k. Being told that same thing as you have... I'm attractive and I can do better. Then after telling your spouse it's not that we don't make enough... it's we spend everyting we make - I get another phone call telling me I haven't got a clue because our combined income of $173k just barely puts us in to the upper lower class to lower middle class. MY goodness!!!! Not to throw salaries around but this shows the insanity at this part of the process?????? You are not alone friend and do not let this affect you. It is not the salary you are competing against... it is her mind.

To 25yearsMLC... I am in love. Good luck with you relationship as it sounds so positive but if things don't Please Marry Me \:\)


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