We have made it to the other side 4

[Treese]

Gosh Everyone....I so don't feel so alone anymore....

It's so amazing how all these MLCers are exactly the same...even down to what they say to us....we look at them and they tell us all these horrible things and they look so sure of themselves...and we truly believe them...because in reality we dont know if what they are saying is true or not or how they are feeling...my H personally never says how HE feels just that, "we're not like that anymore or I need to move on, it's over, divorce happens everyday"...or "the kids will be fine if you stop moping around (I don't mope)"...I wish you could just slap them back into reality...

For me, being able to come here and talk to all of you especially YR, who I've adopted as my DB mom, gets me through for a few more days....I've been at this for 2 years...that's when it comes full circle and you realize it's over...it's a long time, and they have moved on with their OW or whatever it is...

Relationships with my girls is heartbreaking...they adored their father....he was their hero....the funny man...and now they've written him off....very sad...but he is still connected to my son...and when my son goes with him he always looks back at me and the look is his eyes...welll....it makes me cry...it's almost like he doesn't want to go...why, because there comes a time when the disney part wears off....he just wants to sit with his dad and watch TV or silly stuff...S11 and I will sit for hours on the couch, as he holds my hand, and just lets me love on him....

I pray all of our H's wake up and see what they are missing...the OP can only fill so much....I have 30 years...she'll never come close to that...NEVER!

As my H says, "divorce with us in inevitable"..I may end up poor and without H but I have my 3 beautiful children...that's more than money can buy....

Today I feel good, tomorrow is another day...but one day at a time, right MOM!!!

Love ya YR!!!