I'm still married as of right now. I am six months into a divorce that is moving at a snails pace. I am two years into this however. My wife (LOL!!!!) moved out ten months ago. I have two small chidren S2 and D4.
Try your best tomorrow to "act as if." Do your absolute best to NOT show your xh ANY negative emotions and don't feel intimidated. Act upbeat but don't over do it. NO do not let them see you cry. Take today to relax and prepare yourself. You said it "go with the folw" and remain upbeat.
You can do it!!
Be STRONG and CONFIDENT. Just act like everything is cool.