Kevin, I've read over your agreement and COME ON! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? It's obvious she drafted most of it. Read through it again and you'll see how she's controlling you again.
Especially that stuff about contacting the OM. If she decided that she didn't want to pay you any more, she could say that you contacted the OM even if you didn't and even if there's no proof, she can still cut you off from your kids and everything.
Read through it again and you'll see that it sounds like it was written by a high schooler. Don't do it until a lawyer looks at it! Protect yourself! I can see so many loopholes where she can just leave you in the dust with nothing. Not even your kids.
Screw your W already, concentrate on your kids. Postpone whatever you have going on until this is done right if you need to have it done. You are going to be the biggest loser in all this and it is obvious! For example, in terms of the contacting OM's W. That has nothing to do with your single rights and your children's rights. That's just covering her ass!
My opinion again is DON'T DO IT!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.