Yes. My fear is that I will be at a disadvantage legally once I leave the state. So I feel like I have to get this now.
I have been sober since September 2008 now. So W has seen it for months.
I have set my kids up on video/web chat on a laptop I am leaving here in Dallas. This way I can see them each night and they can see me each night and we can talk.
W has no regard for OM's kids in that she doesn't care if they go through a D. Why would she? She is putting her own kids through one. Her thought is just put them all in counseling. She probably assumes she would be a better mother to OM's kids than his own W. She thinks OM's W is a terrible mother and doesn't want the kids anyways from things she has told me about her.
The rush is she wants me out of the house Monday. And since her parents own the house, the judge will side with her.
Plus she can use me quitting my job against me. Even though it was better to quit than be fired which is what I was looking at since I could not focus for months at work because of all the D stuff going on. I had also been written up at work. I want to make sure my butt is covered.
The main purpose of Florida is to better my career. My W doesn't want me coming after her for child support since she is a contractor and her job may end in June. But as a business analyst with her experiance now, she won't have any problem picking up where she left all somewhere in that pay range. Ya, I really need to seek an attorney for advice on that one and the rest of this.
Did you have a chance to look at the agreement I posted that we are to sign? If so, what are your thoughts?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
