It has been almost a year since my wife dropped the bomb. I think it took almost 8 months for me to get out of the shock stage.....and it still resurfaces from time to time. I still struggle with anger towards her. Sometimes I find myself cursing her over and over....

A couple I know struggles with MS. She has stayed with him and continues to love him. He, Louis, is a great guy. I hope you have some good friends and family around. My best wishes to you. Be strong and hang in there! Don't let your H's abandonment reflect on who you are. It is more about who he is....

Last edited by native; 02/22/09 05:31 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09