Yesterday ran into H in the hallway at work. Almost walks smack into me. He says Hi, and then he asks about D15.

Told H I have been very worried about her, she has anger issues, been very down and I have set an appt with her for IC. H said well I have been trying to see her and she sends me rude messages. I said I have see every message she has sent to you and they are not rude but she is not saying what you want to hear. We had a conversation. Yes I am in Plan B, and I should not have talked to him as long as I did. (about 10 minutes) I asked how he was and he said I am good, trying to jog at night and taking care of myself (that is why you look like chit). Told H that she was depressed on VD because she knows that H always brings her a small gift. H said tell her I have a gift for her (a week late?) and wants to get together with her.

Said D is angry with him and has shut down to him right now, she feels you replaced one family with another. H said I did not do that and I said it is not what you think it is what she thinks. She is also worried that court would make her see the plastic pinata and even though I told her no because of her age she worries about it. I told H that he has to realize that his girls will never accept the slag (yes that is what I called her ) no matter how much time goes by.

I said, remember how he thought at the beginning that D would be mad at him for a little while "but would get over it" , Even I never thought what devastation this has caused. This is the worst thing you could have done to us. His eyes filled with tears. He also asked about the dog with her hurt paw.

I asked about work and he said whatever and he was looking for another job. Where, out of state and he said of course not.(lie). I said good because we would hate to be abandoned 2x.

Said I hoped that OW was looking for job, he said she is looking too, and then I started to lose it a little bit.

I said you're going to make the sacrifice and leave the Company because of this A and lose 1/2 of your retirement (6 months away from reaching full retirement) and she is going to stay because she can't make more money somewhere else. I said if you go she better turn in her notice the same day. (Get the 2x4s with my emotions) I said there is no way that it will be acceptable for her to continue working here. It will not work. Never happen. H then said well I know there are rumors going around here and I am looking. I said it is probably the worst kept secret in the company. H looked pained.

So I kinda blew it. Did not tell him about work exposure, but I wonder if he will leave before the Company catches up with this. If H thinks he will go to another position and OW stays behind i will go to the president of the company. No matter what happens she will not be working here.

At the end I mentioned that I planned on taking D away in March because she really needed a change of scenery and if I could borrow his GPS. H said fine and I know he wanted me to ask where but he will find out when he sees the location finder in CA!!!


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09