Just an update. W brought my D over today to see me around 3:00pm. She did have an ulterior motive. She acted like she couldn't leave me unsupervised until OM arrived home, at which point she quit being depressing/mean and started being nice/happy and said she wanted to go see "his mom" because they had invited her to dinner.
I didn't even say anything. She was over there about an hour and a half, then came back and took my D with her. Just leaving it alone so I can get the Div over and done with.
To make sure she can't say anything about abuse I had two cameras recording the entire time (each frame date/time stamped), an audio recorder going in my pocket, and took video with another camera of my daughter as well as pictures.
Sad that I have to do that... but she's pushing the whole 'abuse' angle to the point where I literally have to cover my tail with all these measures just so that she can't say anything. She wants everyone to believe she's leaving an abusive situation... found a number to a Domestic Violence shelter (one of those where they are afraid to death of their husbands and need to live there) which made me laugh because she's pushing it to the point of ridiculousness trying to convince everyone that I'm an abuser rather than herself being an adulterer. If I'm so abusive... why was she coming here alone with me? Why was she leaving our D with me?
This is getting to the point where I've got to cut ties for my own safety at this juncture. Once she comes around, I'll have a discussion with her one day. But I can't afford to truly do anything except focus on myself using DB methods and not really pay attention to her.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
