Married 17, three kids. Youngest developmentl mental issues.
Aug 08, the ILYBINILWY. OM for a EA but suspect PA too.
I read all the books and tried to DB in the same house but it was not working.
We did IC alone and MC together and not much help. It has been helping me but she felt it was not about her.
I have to admit she did open my eyes to some of my actions and my IC has helped me to see why I act the way I do and how to change if I want.
Did all the 180's and trying GAL.
So now what?
Who here has separated out of the house after staying in the house 6 months or more? What can I expect and how should I act?
I feel it best to GAL and no communication other than co parent. Do not invite her to activities I do with kids. Wait for her to make the move.
I'll do some reading on this board as well but wanted to say hi and sorry to be hear but know there is a lot of help here and I could sure use it!
Twice
Me:45;W-47 Married 17 years this time Married in '82 for 3 years and divorced, both walked away. Re-married '91 D16 at home S15 at home (Special Needs) *************************** Wife EA June 08 Bomb August 08 Living in same house
