Thank you for taking care of the taxes and for all the other financial responsibilities you have continued to carry. I'm sorry I haven't been able to find a way to communicate how I can take on more of those duties.
I met with my attorney a few weeks ago and was finally presented with your filing. I explained that you wanted to work through our lawyers from this point forward. He was supposed to contact your attorney about scheduling a settlement conference in which we would make the formal offer you have asked for. I hope we can make that happen.
In the meantime, I am going to ask one more time if you and I can have our own conversation about possible plans for the house, etc. I know I have no right to ask you for anything but I keep hoping that you will forgive me enough to prevent this process from hurting both of us even more. Can you find it in your heart to do that?
Perhaps we could go together to a CPA who could give us a detailed accounting of where we stand and whether there is any way I can avoid bankruptcy. I have so much I am having to deal with right now, including finding a job. I'm not complaining but I am asking for whatever help you can give me.
Pearl's analysis of her xBF's letter motivated me to do the same with my H's. As I began to study his words, one thing jumped out at me. Amazing.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
