Hi Lisa, You sound so well and I'm so happy for you!
I never tried NC w/ H. It just doesn't feel natural and at this point I'm sure of what I want. I compare it this way:
Since we got seperated, it was as if my mind and heart were in conflict. My mind knew that I should be with someone else, that this wasn't good. But the whole time, my heart's feelings trumped my mind. Finally, my mind and heart came to an agreement that it is best that I divorce H.
Will try and start my own thread again. Just too much fun writing on yours!
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
a very belated thanks for all your help and insightful questions on my thread!!!!!!
keep us posted on everything that is going on in your world, with job, CEO, new office neighbors, etcetera!
You have so much to offer as a human being and as an employee/co-CEO! I am totally confident you will find a place to bloom and shine, or that something with CEO is secured (employment I mean), and I am praying it happens VERY VERY FAST!