I couldn't help but notice your post, jojo. I'm sorry you feel so down. I'm afraid I'm not going to be much help at this time either because I just got a VM from my H. Was hoping for some input from you and L.
First, I liked your last post to me. THANK you.
VM said: "I spoke to my atty yesterday and she said you are no longer represented by your atty. (This is true - as of yesterday).
He said: "My atty wants to know what to do. If you're going to be agreeable and reasonable and sensible, etc., etc. that we (you, me and my atty) can sit down and have a settlement conference, but if not, then I'll just go ahead and file for D."
He said he wanted me to call his atty either this weekend or on Monday, which is my Bday! I'm thinking that he's been very insensitive about the timing and doesn't care about my feelings one way or another. Oh, and one more thing....he never gave me his atty's phone number. Don't know what to do.