Shine like the star you are!

[sage]

I didn't realize you felt that foolish feeling. I think in some ways that gets me more than some of the rest! That she kept being nice to my face and coming over here and acting like she was still my friend!

Pam -- Goddness! My thread is filled with angst and sadness and irritation and anger and all that crud! I think you're being swayed by my "3 positives"

In my sitch the ow went out of her way to befriend me...emails, chit chat, etc. She emailed me once about whether or not I was uncomfortable with her going to some event that the wives weren't invited to ("I won't go if any of the "wives" are uncomfortable). I know now that the appropriate answer is: Well, are you having an affair with my h? If so, I am uncomfortable.

h tells me that he has no idea why she sought me out so aggressively. (Um, because she's a narcissistic freak? Oh, wait, that's my answer).

Sage