Divorce looming #4

[K4D]

25,

I am no longer reading anything new of hers. I don't need to know anything further.

The D should be finalized April 5th well before I get back. Apparently money is an issue as well for her. OM makes 110k. My W makes 90k. I was making 50k. On the topic of remarraige she said she would have to take into account someone only making 50k. So I said for us to have a chance at reconciling down the road I would have to make more? She got mad and said she is not a gold digger. But lets be honest, at this point it looks like she is.

Her sister did the exact same thing. Her sister was married, slept with another married man who makes 200k. Then when OM was going to break it off with her, she called OMs W to tell her she was sleeping with her H. OMs W filed for D and now my W's sister has OM and his money. My W is doing the exact same thing after seeing her sister do it. She is already talking about 200k between herself and OM down the road.

It would be hard for even a DB coach to help me out on this one on top of the obvious addiction my W has for this guy. And once the D goes through, how much incentive is there for her to try and work on anything with me. Not much. I would hope she would at some point. But this all looks very bad for me right now.

My W is totally into image now to. She talks about how hot they are as a couple to him.

Barring a miracle, there is just not much hope that I see. She may or may not get this OM. But she knows other guys that make that amount also now. So she is more than likely not going to lower her standards of living for me if I don't break into the 100k range.

There is alot of money in Dallas and alot of people with money in Dallas and now she wants her share of it at pretty much any cost.

Again, morals out the window. Greed has totally set in with her.

She did used to be an excellent mom. The best I ever saw. But now, other things have taken priority even over the kids.

My W doesn't seem to have any guilt about this. Its more about being entitled to money, and a man she wants and an image she wants. She has always said she doesn't live with regrets. She says life is to short.

I also wonder if she feels like the window is closing in on her to obtain all of this so go for it now while she is still hot looking and young enough to get it. She actually looks very young for her age. She could easily pass for her 20s and she is 35. OM is 44 but apparently in excellent shape. He is and was an athlete.

Truthfully, I don't think there is anything I can do even with the kids to compete in this situation until and if her mentallity changes. Its so about materialism and addiction to OM for her now.

Thank you for the prayer. I need all of them I can get. I pray every day for things to change between us. We are leaving in a couple of hours to sign the custody agreement. Ugg.

Kevin